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ST. LOUIS COUNTY 鈥� Christina Faria is a nervous traveler.

She loves being on vacation: taking in the scenery, meeting new people, shopping for souvenirs. But it鈥檚 the uncertainty beforehand, sometimes months prior to her departure date, that weighs her down.

Faria, 43, has cerebral palsy, a neurologic disorder that impedes her movement. She has to make sure every leg of the trip can accommodate her wheelchair and other mobility aids, from the flight and the hotel to the beach excursions and stage performances.

鈥淚t鈥檚 not like you can show up and spitball this,鈥� says Faria, who lives in Affton.

The logistical headaches of travel are multiplied for people with disabilities, a group that accounts for almost 30% of the American population, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. More than 1 in 10 people have conditions that limit their mobility. But accessibility 鈥� of museums, theme parks, airports 鈥� varies widely, with minimum requirements laid out by the Americans with Disabilities Act. Outside the United States, barriers are even more prevalent.

Faria gets around in a $70,000 power wheelchair. She needs help getting dressed, showering and using the bathroom. Her balance is poor, and she struggles with some fine motor skills, such as cutting food.

She also lives for the theater. She loves group activities, like scavenger hunts and trivia contests. When she eats out, she always chats up fellow diners.

鈥淚鈥檓 a real joiner,鈥� Faria says. 鈥淭raveling to me is one big social activity.鈥�

It鈥檚 also a heavy lift, one that 鈥� since she fully lost the ability to walk during her teen years 鈥� has kept her closer to home. Spur-of-the-moment trips are infeasible for many people with disabilities, so are 鈥渂argain鈥� options. Lodging choices are limited: Large hotels are only required to have about 3% of their rooms be mobility-accessible, and short-term rentals such as Airbnbs seldom have ramps or wide enough door frames. Ride-hailing services offer few wheelchair-ready vehicles.

Flying is fraught. The airplane bathroom, for many wheelchair-users, is unworkable. Layovers have to be long enough to make gate times. And the extra equipment leads to more security checks.

鈥淲e need way more suitcases than any normal person needs,鈥� says Faria.

Every year, Faria and her caregiver schedule a few weekend outings to places like Chicago, Branson and Kansas City.

Her dream destinations, though, are much farther afield. She鈥檚 imagined what it would be like to see Italy since she was a little girl. And to honor her mom, a devout Catholic who died during the COVID-19 pandemic, she wants to go to Lourdes, France, where water from a grotto is believed to have healing powers.

Slow progress

In the 35 years since the American with Disabilities Act was passed, resources for travelers have steadily improved. Technological advancements have streamlined some tasks. Social media networks and specialty travel agents are available to offer tips, recommendations and warnings about where to steer clear.

During President Joe Biden鈥檚 administration, $25 billion from the Bipartisan Infrastructure Law was earmarked to modernize airport terminals, including adding ramps and renovating restrooms.

In 2023, the U.S. Department of Transportation announced a requirement to make lavatories on new airplanes roomier. Airlines are developing systems that would allow wheelchair-users to stay in their wheelchairs during flights.

Still, progress has been slow. For some people, it鈥檚 just easier to squelch any wanderlust.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 travel often because it is a pain,鈥� said Anna Corbitt of Alton. 鈥淚 hate flying. I hate figuring out certain things.鈥�

Corbitt, 35, works for Paraquad, a disability-services nonprofit based in 51黑料. She has used a wheelchair her whole life and has a long inventory of horror stories: The time a travel agent tried to sell her a flight with a 20-minute layover in Atlanta, an airport that would take her at least two hours to traverse. The time her wheelchair was laid on the wrong side in the belly of the plane, causing thousands of dollars in damages. The time she was reassured that a building she was visiting was accessible, 鈥渆xcept for that one step at the front.鈥�

There have been bright spots. Washington, D.C., and Las Vegas are refreshingly uncomplicated to negotiate, Corbitt said. Organizations such as Wheel the World, founded by a man with paraplegia, make it easier to pinpoint the best accommodations. Corbitt keeps detailed notes of her online research.

鈥淭hat鈥檚 the Type A in me,鈥� she said.

She longs to go on international treks. Australia is at the top of her wish list. But she doesn鈥檛 see that happening. Too many things could go wrong.

鈥淚t scares the bejeezus out of me,鈥� Corbitt said.

Melissa Walaitis, owner of Dream Bound Vacations in Manchester, built a second career around easing the concerns of reluctant travelers like Corbitt. The key to arranging a successful vacation, Walaitis said, is coordinating a person鈥檚 day-to-day needs with what they want from a getaway: sightseeing, relaxing, adventure or something else.

鈥淚t鈥檚 really reading between the lines to make a match,鈥� she said. 鈥淓very situation is different.鈥�

Walaitis got her start in the business through her middle son, who has a developmental disorder. When her kids were little, she figured out travel workarounds for him. She was an elementary school teacher at the time but wrote guide books on the side to help friends and acquaintances who were in similar positions.

Soon, she had a small travel agency that catered to clients with autism, severe food allergies and physical disabilities. Ten years later, Walaitis employs a couple dozen agents; six are based in the 51黑料 area. They鈥檝e planned more than 2,000 trips for people who require special accommodations.

Success on the sea

Faria, the Affton resident, had been planning a 40th birthday blowout at Walt Disney World with her mom when the pandemic hit. After her mom died, Faria鈥檚 main caregiver, Wendi Bottoms, helped her reenvision the celebration.

The pair headed to Orlando, Florida, in 2022. There were plenty of highs 鈥� the Magic Kingdom, nightly fireworks, the buzz of being around other Disney fanatics. The entertainment resort has a reputation for inclusivity.

But Faria couldn鈥檛 do everything. She and Bottoms waited in line for an hour for the new 鈥淎vatar鈥� ride; then, Faria couldn鈥檛 transfer onto the motorcycle-style seat.

鈥淚t really hurt for her to not do the things she wanted to do,鈥� said Bottoms, who has been working with Faria for five years.

When they got home, Bottoms called Walaitis, whom she knew from a previous job. The travel agent suggested a cruise.

Faria was wary. What if something went wrong?

鈥淚t鈥檚 not like you can just get off the boat,鈥� she said.

But Walaitis had been on the Royal Caribbean鈥檚 new Utopia and recorded every nook of the ship so Faria could preview it.

The shower was a walk-in. The toilet was tall enough. There was a motorized lift she could use to get into the pool. There were aqua shows, all-day buffets, two casinos and a couple dozen bars and lounges 鈥� and she would be able to experience everything.

Faria and Bottoms sailed last year. They were looking at their calendars to book another cruise before they returned to dry land.

鈥淚t was awesome,鈥� said Faria.

In December, they will get a Disney redo when they take a themed voyage to the U.S. and British Virgin Islands, on the Disney Treasure.

Typically, this would be the point when the worries and what-ifs creep in for Faria. But not this time. All she can think of are the adventures that await: the Haunted Mansion Parlor, the mariachi band at the Plaza De Coco, and, most especially, the Broadway-style 鈥淢oana鈥� show.

Vacation is coming. And she is ready.