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ST. CHARLES COUNTY 鈥� Paul Kamphoefner stood alone among the rows of marble and granite headstones.

The 76-year-old cattle farmer came to Zion Lutheran Cemetery in St. Charles that day to complete one task: Dig a grave for the 102-year-old woman to be buried there.

Kamphoefner is a bit of a relic. He and his sons are among the last people in the 51黑料 region who dig graves by hand.

The legion of gravediggers who once helped to lay millions of 51黑料 area residents to rest have been replaced by modern technology and heavy equipment. A backhoe or mini excavator can dig the graves faster and are considered more cost-effective.

But a hand-dug grave is different. Cemeteries hire Kamphoefner for a multitude of reasons. But mostly, they say, it鈥檚 the tidiness of his work. He reaches spots heavy equipment can鈥檛 and he doesn鈥檛 leave tire tracks. The perfectly squared walls of the holes he digs keep headstones from tipping or falling over as the ground settles.

鈥淭he old method takes a lot longer and a lot more effort, but over time, it helps us maintain a healthier looking graveyard,鈥� said Mike Fieberkorn, Zion Lutheran鈥檚 associate pastor.

鈥淧aul is kind of a legend around here,鈥� Fieberkorn said. 鈥淲e all kind of stand in awe of him 鈥� we are all in our 30s and 40s and we wouldn鈥檛 be able to do what he is doing.鈥�

Most area cemeteries, including Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, stopped having graves dug by hand decades ago.

鈥淒igging a grave by hand just isn鈥檛 done anymore,鈥� said Sonny Peppers, assistant director at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. The cemetery used to employ a group of men who would dig graves for deceased soldiers and their spouses. It would take the men an estimated 8 hours to dig each grave, he said.

The majority of graves at Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum in 51黑料 are dug using backhoes, but the cemetery resumed digging graves by hand about a decade ago for environmentally friendly burials. Nearly one-third of the burials there each year are dug by hand.

On a hot June day, Kamphoefner moved about his work with the efficiency of someone who has been digging graves for 50-plus years. His shovel piercing the soil echoed across the cemetery.

He鈥檇 been at work since 9 a.m., digging through a layer of topsoil and a layer of red Missouri clay. He would dig through several more before his work was complete.

By 10:30, the beads of sweat dripped down his face, covered by the wide brim of a hat.

Kamphoefner paused to adjust the dial of the portable radio he鈥檇 tuned into a sports radio talk show. He prefers listening to the 51黑料 Cardinals play when he can.

The sounds mixed with a whippoorwill singing in a nearby oak tree and the voices of children at a nearby playground.

Sometimes, the kids鈥� curiosity will prompt them to approach. They want to know if he is digging up a dead person.

鈥淭hat鈥檚 really the only question the kids ever ask me,鈥� Kamphoefner said. 鈥淚 just tell them that I am a gravedigger.鈥�

The first grave

Kamphoefner remembers the first grave he ever dug.

He had moved back to the region with an economics degree from the University of Central Missouri in Warrensburg, and after working in Kansas City for a few years. He and his wife, Mary, were looking for ways to supplement income from the family鈥檚 farm.

It was October 1973 at the Bethany United Church of Christ Cemetery in rural Schluersburg, a tiny hamlet in western St. Charles County.

鈥淢y mom knew they were looking for a gravedigger and my mom somehow volunteered me,鈥� Kamphoefner said. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 know anything about digging a grave, but there I was digging one.鈥�

It took him about six hours.

鈥淚nitially, I thought I would only do that one grave or maybe only do it for a few years,鈥� Kamphoefner said. 鈥淏ut now, after 51 years, I am still doing it.鈥�

Kamphoefner and his wife say they don鈥檛 know how many graves he has dug but estimate that it could be as many as 3,200 across more than 20 cemeteries in St. Charles County.

鈥淚 wish we would have known that he was going to still be doing this, because I would have kept track,鈥� Mary Kamphoefner said.

Kamphoefner鈥檚 fastest time, he said, was digging a grave in three hours. The funeral home had forgotten to call him until the day of the service.

鈥淏ut that was when I was much younger, obviously,鈥� said Kamphoefner said. Now, at 76, a grave can take him six or seven hours to dig.

His goal is to keep at it until he鈥檚 80.

Sometimes, Mary Kamphoefner said, her stoic husband will reveal how difficult the job can be 鈥� in different ways.

鈥淚鈥檒l ask him how digging a particular grave was, and he will talk about how he is hitting tree roots, rocks or that something isn鈥檛 going quite right,鈥� she said. 鈥淎nd then I鈥檒l ask him again, and he will tell me.鈥�

It becomes personal, she said.

鈥淗e dug his parents鈥� graves. He鈥檚 dug the graves for young children, and those are really sad stories. Those are the hardest ones, especially when we鈥檝e known the family,鈥� she said. 鈥淗e wouldn鈥檛 have wanted somebody else to do it.鈥�

Kamphoefner nodded.

鈥淚 try to do a good job for everybody, but on those graves, I was maybe a little bit more aware of everything,鈥� he said. 鈥淲e鈥檙e Christian people, and we know that we will see them again.鈥�

A gravedigger鈥檚 duty

Kamphoefner鈥檚 work typically begins with a call from a funeral home.

He confers with the cemetery manager to locate the correct plot. He arrives at the cemetery days before the funeral with his two spade shovels, one square shovel and tile spades to dig the grave 6 feet deep, a wheelbarrow to cart the dirt and a 5-gallon bucket to step on to hoist himself out of the hole.

He returns long after the bereaved family has left, hauling the dirt back to close the grave.

Mark Vogt, the business manager for Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary in O鈥橣allon, said he trusts Kamphoefner. 鈥淲e talk about what needs to be done, and then he goes and does it. ... He has the same respect for our deceased and our family members that we do.鈥�

Kamphoefner says he knows his work is appreciated, even if the families don鈥檛 see him do it. After one graveside service, the new widow asked to talk to him. She hugged him.

鈥淚t took me by surprise, to be sure,鈥� he said.

He and his son, Mark, who helps on weekends, average about 60 graves per year, in all seasons and in all kinds of weather.

Kamphoefner has dug graves in extreme cold and in sweltering heat. He has battled rain-soaked ground that collapses on him midway through digging a grave.

鈥淧eople always ask me if I dig in the winter,鈥� Kamphoefner said. 鈥淏ut, the truth is, if there is good grass then the frost usually isn鈥檛 too bad. Once you peel back that layer, it goes pretty well.鈥�

He will wake early in the morning to dig, and has even skipped family trips.

One Christmas he was driving the family to Kansas City when he got a call.

鈥淪o I finished driving the family to Kansas City, dropped them off, turned around and came back home to dig the grave,鈥� Kamphoefner said. 鈥淚 drove back the next day.鈥�

Mary Kamphoefner said her husband鈥檚 career as a gravedigger, while still working the family farm, became a fact of life.

鈥淲e just got used to knowing that we couldn鈥檛 get too far from home, because something might come up and he might be needed to dig a grave,鈥� she said.

She would pack picnic lunches and take their sons, Mark and Joe, to the cemetery to spend time with their father as he dug. The boys would sometimes hold a flashlight for him when he worked after sunset.

鈥淲hen you鈥檙e a kid you don鈥檛 analyze things like you do when you鈥檙e an adult,鈥� Mark Kamphoefner said. 鈥淚 just knew that as a kid, I wanted to help him, I wanted to be just like him and mimic him as much as possible 鈥� even though I probably wasn鈥檛 much help with a shovel back then.鈥�

Mark Kamphoefner, who still works full time as an electrical engineer, has been digging graves off-and-on since he was 18, and hasn鈥檛 decided if he鈥檒l continue after his father retires. Maybe, he said, he鈥檒l bring his own children, who are toddlers now, to help him when they鈥檙e older.

The day Kamphoefner decides to hang up his shovels will be felt across many community and church cemeteries, but especially at Zion Lutheran Cemetery and Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, where he鈥檚 helped bury hundreds of people.

鈥淚t will be the end of an era,鈥� said Fieberkorn, associate pastor at Zion Lutheran.

Joe Kamphoefner and his brother Mark say they expect that when the time comes, they鈥檒l dig the graves of their parents 鈥� just as their dad did for his family.

Just like him, the sons said, they wouldn鈥檛 want anyone else to do it.

鈥淚n this modern world that has changed a lot, here is a man who finds joy and contentment in a job well done,鈥� Joe Kamphoefner said. 鈥淎nd that鈥檚 my dad.鈥�