The governor of Utah struggled to find the right words to describe the question so many have been asking: What is happening in America?
The silence lasted almost 10 seconds. He looked down. He opened and closed his mouth.
"Our nation is broken," Spencer Cox finally said, hours after the public killing of Charlie Kirk. The governor described violent attacks on both Democrats and Republicans, including the killing of Minnesota lawmaker Melissa Hortman and her husband, two assassination attempts on President Donald Trump and the firebombing of Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro's official residence.

Utah Gov. Spencer Cox, left, speaks with Utah Valley University Chief of Police Jeff Long, right, at a news conference on the Utah Valley University campus Wednesday in Orem, Utah.Â
His words stood out not just for the stark language about America's troubles, but for his sober acknowledgement that the violence reaches across the political divide.
It can be hard to remember all the scenes of political violence in just the past few years: Butler, Pennsylvania, the Minneapolis suburbs, San Francisco, New York City, West Palm Beach. And more. Taken together, they are enough to make Americans wonder: Is there a way forward? What might it look like?
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"Nothing I say can unite us as a country," said Cox, a Republican. "Nothing I can say right now will fix what is broken."

People watch a hearse containing the body of Charlie Kirk leave Thursday after the body arrived aboard Air Force Two at Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport in Phoenix.Â
A troubled nation
Many people, of course, feel America is broken. You can hear about the country's many troubles — its ideological divides, its anger, its lack of civility — from conservatives and liberals, from socialist firebrands and evangelical preachers, from Democrats and Republicans. It is, perhaps, one of the few beliefs that unites Americans right now.
So many seem to genuinely want those divides to be mended, for the country to be knitted back together. But the question of why America is broken, and who is to blame, and how to repair it? That's where things get complicated.
Because no matter what you believe, today — in both the myriad reactions to Kirk's violent public death and in general — you can pick the America you want. You can pick the America that you believe exists.
You can see a president who is systematically removing the rights of Americans, or a president who is standing up for a forgotten middle class. You can see signs of fascism in the masked immigration agents hauling people off the streets, or an administration that is enforcing immigration laws.

The casket containing the body of Charlie Kirk is removed from Air Force Two on Thursday at Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport in Phoenix.Â
In Charlie Kirk, you can see a polite, boy-next-door type with a captivating debating style who loved America, the church, his family, and the resurgence of conservatism across the country, especially among young people. Or you can see a political hybrid of the social media age, a powerful political operative who was willing to exploit America's racial divide in search of support and who insisted, falsely, that voter fraud cost Trump the 2020 elections.
When Cox spoke mournfully about America's predicament, he clearly hoped Kirk's death could help bring America together. More likely, though, the killing could drive the wedges deeper.
Just listen to how people reacted to his death. Choose the take you want to believe.
A divided reaction
In the hours immediately after the shooting, officials in both parties appeared eager to show restraint and decorum, expressing their grief, support for Kirk's family and repulsion at political violence.
"Words cannot describe the shock and horror I felt today," Arizona Republican chair Gina Swoboda said in a statement, saying America "must never condone or excuse acts of political violence."
Maine's Democratic governor, Janet Mills, who has sparred with Trump, said she was "horrified by what has happened to Charlie Kirk."
"Differing views — regardless of who holds them and how much you may detest them — should never be met with violence," she wrote.

Attendees pray Thursday during a vigil for Charlie Kirk at the Historic Lake County Courthouse in Tavares, Fla.
Soon, though, even with only the barest facts about the shooting known, the anger began to spill out. Georgia Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene said she was praying that "this country rises up and ends this." Then others began speaking up, with politicians warning about "leftwing Brown Shirts" and Christians under attack.
Trump quickly conferred martyr status onto Kirk, ordering flags lowered at federal buildings and blaming leftist rhetoric for Kirk's assassination in a lengthy video statement released on social media late Wednesday.
"For years, those on the radical left have compared wonderful Americans like Charlie to Nazis and the world's worst mass murders and criminals," Trump said, speaking from the Oval Office and citing only attacks on Republicans.
Democratic politicians, for the most part, appeared eager to avoid any sign they were demonizing Kirk. But it wasn't that way in some left-wing neighborhoods on social media.
"Charlie Kirk isn't a martyr," wrote a commentator on X with 130,000 followers, echoing many others. "He's a casualty of the violence he incited."
That carried echoes of the praise for Luigi Mangione, the man charged with murdering the UnitedHealthcare CEO in Manhattan last year, and the explosion of social media memes celebrating the July shooting death of a prominent real-estate executive in the same borough.

A makeshift memorial for Charlie Kirk is seen Thursday on the Utah Valley University campus in Orem, Utah.Â
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Online, of course, it's easy to remain anonymous, and it can be impossible to distinguish true praise for political violence and vigilantism with adolescent trolling. It's different for politicians, who can't stay anonymous — and who are often looked to in moments like this to help show their supporters and constituents the way.
Unlike Trump, his presidential predecessors spoke far more gently, in keeping with their particular styles. Former Presidents Joe Biden and Barack Obama said they were praying for Kirk's family. George W. Bush called for divine guidance to move the nation to civility.Â
That kind of message took root in some places. In Connecticut, College Republicans and College Democrats issued a joint statement decrying violence. On Wednesday, Cox — a Republican politician thrust into the limelight by tragedy — spoke emotionally about a belief in free speech that goes back to America's founding, and about how hatred can lead to violence.
"Is this it?" he asked. "Is this what 250 years has wrought on us?"
"I pray that is not the case."
Photos before and after the shooting of Charlie Kirk

Charlie Kirk hands out hats Wednesday before speaking at Utah Valley University in Orem.

Charlie Kirk speaks Wednesday before he was shot during Turning Point's visit to Utah Valley University in Orem.

The crowd reacts Wednesday after Charlie Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of the conservative youth organization Turning Point USA, was shot at the Utah Valley University in Orem.

The crowd reacts Wednesday after Charlie Kirk was shot during Turning Point's visit to Utah Valley University in Orem.

Law enforcement tapes off an area Wednesday after Charlie Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of the conservative youth organization Turning Point USA, was shot at the Utah Valley University in Orem.

A SWAT team heads onto the Utah Valley University campus Wednesday in Orem after Charlie Kirk was shot during Turning Point's visit.

Armed officers walk around the neighborhood bordering the Utah Valley University campus in Orem, knocking on doors and asking for information, after Charlie Kirk was shot Wednesday during Turning Point's visit to the college.

The national headquarters of Turning Point USA is seen Wednesday in Phoenix after the shooting of Charlie Kirk, the 31-year-old CEO and co-founder of the organization, during a Utah college event.

A well-wisher, front, receives a hug from a member of security Wednesday as he drops off flowers at the national headquarters of Turning Point USA  in Phoenix after the shooting death of Charlie Kirk, the organization's CEO.

A well-wisher is overcome Wednesday after dropping off flowers at the national headquarters of Turning Point USA in Phoenix after the shooting death of Charlie Kirk, the organization's CEO.

A worker lowers the American flag to half-staff Wednesday on the North Lawn at the White House in Washington after Charlie Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was killed in a shooting.

People take photos after the American flag was lowered to half-staff Wednesday on the North Lawn at the White House in Washington after Charlie Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was killed in a shooting.

Speaker of the House Mike Johnson, R-La., speaks to reporters Wednesday at the Capitol in Washington about the shooting of Turning Point USA co-founder and CEO Charlie Kirk.

Flowers are seen Wednesday outside the Keller Building on the Utah Valley University campus after news broke that Charlie Kirk died after he was shot earlier during Turning Point's visit to the university in Orem.

Police arrive at the national headquarters of Turning Point USA in Phoenix shown after the Wednesday shooting death of Charlie Kirk, the organization's co-founder and CEO.

Allison Hemingway-Witty cries Wednesday after Charlie Kirk was shot during Turning Point's visit to Utah Valley University in Orem.

Utah Highway Patrol vehicles park outside Timpanogos Regional Hospital on Wednesday in Orem, Utah.

Joseph Vogl stands outside Timpanogos Regional Hospital on Wednesday in Orem, Utah.

Cecilia Garcia and Dawn Thomas react Wednesday in Westminster, Calif., as they learn the news on social media of conservative activist Charlie Kirk being shot at a college event in Utah.

Police work Wednesday on the Utah Valley University campus in Orem after Charlie Kirk was shot during Turning Point's visit.